May 2011
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can’t really concentrate on re-doing my project at the moment. feeling the need to empty out instead. writer’s block in that sense…? hahh. idk.
wow. time really does fly. semester’s practically over with finals seriously around the corner. soon enough going home. bumming most of the time while trying to be productive. summer school -.- and then before i know it the next semester again!
as i’ve reached the end of the year i actually find myself really wishing it wasn’t time yet. not that i didn’t feel this before, but it feels stronger than before..? not sure how that happened and when. this year was an interesting year. different from the others, although each year is different in general.
there’s much that i will miss and much that i’m happy to let go of. also much that has been learned, yet much has been started too that might be what is contributing to the whole i-don’t-want-it-to-be-over-yet feeling.
wahhh…. *sigh*
April 2011
29 posts
Top 10 Myths about Introverts →
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Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.
Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.
Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.
Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.
Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.
Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.
Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.
Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.
All true.
YES.
I don’t remember the last time i re-blogged. But I have to now.
Because I agree on most. Because I, Eunice Yu, am an introvert.
I like #1, 3, 4, 6, and 7.all of the above.
me. especially 1, 2, and 6.
i don’t like this. being confused about being confused. whether this is real or something else or just me.
so frustrating. my heart isn’t prepared for this.
pirate room! →
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shooo COOL.
though for me being a pirate was not on my who-i-wanna-be-when-i-grow-up list…this kinda makes me wish i was one, just for the night. haha.
“While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could save him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God.”
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- Hebrews 5:7
Talk about good timing…only major difference is Jesus is doing the next step. God’s word can be so humbling at times.
thank you God.
I'm Christian →
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I’m Christian When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not shouting “I’m clean livin’.”
I’m whispering “I was lost,
Now I’m found and forgiven.”
When I say… “I am a Christian”
I don’t speak of this with pride.
I’m confessing that I stumble
and need Christ to be my guide.
When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not trying to be strong.
I’m professing that I’m weak
And need His strength to carry on.
When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not bragging of success.
I’m admitting I have failed
And need God to clean my mess.
When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not claiming to be perfect,
My flaws are far too visible
But, God believes I am worth it.
When I say… “I am a Christian”
I still feel the sting of pain.
I have my share of heartaches
So I call upon His name.
When I say… “I am a Christian”
I’m not holier than thou,
I’m just a simple sinner
Who received God’s good grace, somehow!
i miss my car…
i wanna drive to the beach, to breathe again..
i have failed and hurt more than i realized…
even reading that first sentence i feel like i have looked at myself for too long and therefore neglected you more than i thought. you’ve been hurting this whole week and i wasn’t there…physically and…just there. i’m sorry dear friend although sorry doesn’t cut it. though we’ve talked, it is still weird and not fully the same. not sure if it can be exactly the same as before, but i do wish we could be stronger together. i do care about you….maybe too much maybe because i’m too close. maybe we need time but i don’t want to give space if that’s not what’s going to help, especially now.
but it’s already obvious i have failed you. and still i remain the same. stubborn, judgmental (last night), still holding on to my own feelings and overlooking yours. though this whole thing hurts in so many ways, i am thankful that i now see how much i need to be humbled and what needs to be broken and cleaned out of me. but damn, i feel disgusted. i didn’t think this was in me. but sin is sin. and sin is scary…i’m learning and seeing.
i’m sorry that i broke down a lot in you. a time like this when you needed someone i stopped being someone you could turn to. i wish i wasn’t so selfish.
i pray we would be able to overcome this. i would be able to overcome me too.
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this is gonna take longer than i think i can stand..
But God YOU are so much more greater and stronger than i could ever be… i’m holding on to You
Second Chances.
“Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me.”
Only God knows the real condition of one’s heart. Why things happen? I don’t really know. But I’ve came to the conclusion that everything happens for a reason and in the end, the choice is YOURS.
They say life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. It’s always been in my heart to forgive someone who has hurt me, because God calls us to forgive. I mean, God forgave me right?
Just a small ramble tonight. No drama, just progress.
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My heart breaks…but let it be only for the right one.
hebrews 12:4-11
What an interesting week. Another interesting way to end my night but I think I’m learning to appreciate these little surprises from God.
My heart has been breaking in some ways too lately.. But for the good I’m realizing and trying to remember.
Change hurts.
Let’s say I don’t want to settle… let’s say this isn’t enough for me… let’s say I don’t want to be some Christian. What if I wanted it all to mean something, what if God was more than just worth it… would I have lived today any different?
“God’s way is perfect.
All the Lord’s promises prove true.
He is a shield for all who look to him for protection.”
—Psalm 18:30
